This book will help parents and teachers understand the common causes of conflict they experience with their children and other adults. It will help them frame those problems in a way that will help both them and their children resolve the problem. It will help them understand why and how the problems have been created in the first place and why they often persist into adulthood. Three easy steps can create a completely different outlook on the problems of life and can put drug use and other self-abusive behavior into perspective.